Perhaps women prevents maternal instinct, which at times makes each of them a strict parent instead friend for life. But parents usually treat their children as improved "I" - mold on their own image and likeness, but in a more advanced version. More than anything, the parents do not want their child failed, making not what they wanted, because it would mean that their reflection is imperfect, and the human mind such things-shuffling strongly opposes. Psyche (healthy, anyway) operates an internal guard casts unpleasant and trying to get as many joyful experiences. Therefore, parents and want their "training facilities" were perfect.
Women are about the same. I not once convinced that in times of crisis they are - instead of discussing the real problems - just repeat the same phrases relating to the case, citing as an Ohm's law when correcting fused plugs. Again and again, both in a vicious circle, you talk about what she felt when she learned that you do not understand how she suffers, and suffers ... And all because you're not who she wants to see you.
Of course, the best thing a man can do in this situation - to recognize all of their imperfect mistakes and ask for forgiveness. But with this female viewpoint. With all of these men wailing women are simply meaningless, because it does not carry any useful information. Accordingly, in a man's head, they do not penetrate. Accordingly, the man did not respond (or does it dull and unconvincing). This "neglect" is perceived as insulting demonstrative. Especially when we have in mind is sex.
Imagining that her husband is no longer her wish, she quickly organizes two or three collision, four or five attempts to hold intimate conversations, or five or six of the tragic staging with tears in the corner (or all kit), but the more her anxiety, the less interest on his part. And here in the light of considerations emerge that the marriage was a mistake, that most of them did not bind and the entire life together - one big failure, and it is necessary to look for a lover to somehow smooth out the hateful coexistence, if the divorce is not possible.
Personally, I think that there is nothing more senseless conversations with the man about the lack of sex, because these conversations lead him to despair. Man does not understand how it can be forced to have sex, if that's what he valued above all. A women's complaints about their dissatisfaction (which somehow used as an argument for the restoration of sex) for him means that it does not match the title of the men. What is it like a bull in a herd, are trying to use, ignoring the genuine needs. And it increases the aggressiveness of male aggression against women unsatisfied. And if she does not want to give in, it is perceived as an equal, like the male, which constantly have to compete for the right to have an opinion.
To feel like a strange woman. And even a little perverted.
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