"Why are men running away from me? .."

"I'm attractive, I like to cook, well-paid, his own apartment, all in front of me ..." Women are usually immediately begin to enumerate his many virtues, to be clear: to lead a lonely life with the baggage of personal virtues very disappointing ...

Women, by the way, are right: they are well maintained, beautiful, shopping, and when they are all really. Why do they not develop relationships with men, a mystery. Take, for example, N. We went to school together, and N. was the most beautiful girl in the class. When years later, we as former classmates, brought online, I even felt a little excitement. To achieve reciprocity from the first beauty - believe me, it flatters man's vanity at any age.

- Do you like children? - N. asked at the meeting.

I thought, and N. meanwhile said she loves and wants to have her there were three. Or four.

I am glad that at that time had not yet offered to go with me. I never made this offer in the evening. I realized that I'm not the prince on a white horse, which is needed AN "Oh, I'm not in politics", - she said coquettishly at the name of Woody Allen. From movie N. preferred mainly soap operas. Basically (judging by what she described to me in detail) about unrequited love with a happy ending. She was a nice girl, but it seems the main source of information was the site of the high life. Or glossy magazine, I do not remember exactly. I imagined how long evening together N. advised me what it is best to choose a handbag and reasons why the red car best purple. As we watch TV shows together and killing time for all this nonsense. And I was not alone.

After yesterday we N. longer seen.

This is the eternal dilemma of the relationship between the sexes - be yourself or is it better? Naturally, as indicated by the first time is not always good - sometimes better to be better and try to expand their horizons. The problem is that the diligence and women easily over the edge, and it is a problem. First (and this is very indicative of a real case) 43-year-old Irina seemed to Andrew (39 years old) is very charming smiling woman. Simply dressed, but with such a figure that looked elegant - it wanted to look at a date ... she came to utterly skintight leopard dress with a plunging neckline. "The short skirt, fishnet stockings vulgar, cosmetics on her face with a thick layer, some pungent smell of perfume," - listed Andrew, talking about how stupid from this meeting. He was very upset then, so wrong. Half an hour later Andrew rushed to leave, citing the case.

Many ancient thinkers believed that there are no objective reasons do not exist, there is only what we ourselves think. To put it simply, women are left alone because they desire. I know that sounds insulting. But you know, as often happens: you start talking, and it turns out that (in the words of the famous film heroine) "all by herself, she ...."

- Sitting in the restaurant, chatting peacefully, - says an acquaintance. She drank a martini and relax. Everything is fine. And suddenly it for no apparent reason says: "I am not interested in your money. I'm able to contain herself. Most of all I value my independence. "

I do not understand. Like anything not offered, he attempted - What about her? It seems not stupid, maybe complex? She was not drunk. What then? Heavy character? Yes, I do not need hysterical ...

A friend said that rely on long-term relationship is not very logical, even strange. I think so too.

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