Do women get married?

The other day, read about that in Russia became more children born to couples who live in a "civil union" to each other officially wife. Children who grow up in such families do not know the taste of nepotism, do not seek to build a traditional hearth, experts say.

At this rate, in a few generations, we get a society in which almost the most important value of family life - stamp in the passport - finally devalued. In my personal opinion, this perspective looks rather utopian, but psychologists claim that in the not too distant future, men will no longer marry, and women want to get married "by the registrar."

Recently believed particularly bad. With the desire of marriage for women is still, in my opinion, all right. And if you hate to think public relations will be free to live the grandchildren, this desire to go forward. Otherwise, it will wither and die out for lack of motivation.

At first glance, what the big deal is just too scary? Thousands of men have now prepared to release in his bachelor apartment one more place - provided that it is not necessary to go in any registrar. So it is much easier: no stamp in the passport went out - and had divorced. And the women are willing to wait until the favorite does not ripen at one hundred percent and do not realize that they are made for each other and offer finally, not only in his apartment Zyablikovo, but also married. Give birth to children: nearly a third of Russian babies are "civilian" parents. No such conflict can, and indeed better.

- Olya - say sister - that you have lived with Peter-lived, and then went to the registrar. With your female point of view has anything changed?

For Oli is a complex issue. On the one hand, it was different take Petya's parents she felt truly become a member of their family, and she was very nice. On the other - to Peter, she became demanding, she came to this "legitimate reasons". And on this occasion they even happen quarrel.

- That is, marriage was better not to go?

- Contrary. Not worth the wait so long!

When you go to the registrar with the person with whom share a bed for a long time and a household, it is well aware with what a bunch of shortcomings exchange rings. This is hardly encouraging and adds enthusiasm. The wedding turns into a formal relationship to the appendage, nothing new has to wait longer. Olina's parents once had a quiet horror of what their daughter lives with her Petya without marriage. Maybe they were right?

Girls sometimes ask whether to take the initiative in their hands and the "lobby" issue marriage proposal. I think it is worth while doing it, of course, need to delicately. Ready to marry men often resembles the soup to simmer - may languish indefinitely. For us, marriage is - uh, a parachute jump: you need a kick in the instructor to leave the board.

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