Too good for wife

My mother came back from the resort and brought with her story. At the same sanatorium vacationing couple, and of course, I asked, what's interesting is that the two spouses spend their holidays together. But my mom is difficult to mislead, so it was one of the first who realized that this pair husband and wife. "Husbands wives themselves are not so sure," - she said with conviction.

Because of this history mother almost lost her best friend Alexandra Victorovna. She, of course, my mother the very first of his friends talked about the two lovers from the sanatorium. But a friend found themselves on opposite sides of the ideological barricades because Alexander V. unexpectedly sided "razluchnitsy." "Anything can happen - she said amiably. - If a man is feeding a woman promises, and she is waiting for him for years - so what is it now, do not live, do not use any joy? "

Many women really just some innate desire to be a good - especially for others. As a rule, so evident persist in childhood desire to be noticed by their parents to earn their praise. The problem is that a woman who is very important to be a good girlfriend or wife, even in the age continues to be a serious girl and a child directly shifts its problems on others. ... When Mary went from Andrew, she said, that he never cared about her. She had a bad back, had an operation, and she was advised to look like in the pool to bring the body back in shape. How many times she spoke about it! Andrew and a finger is not hit.

- I felt so sorry for Masha - he admitted afterwards. It is really ... spin. But then I thought that she herself had not even called to the pool to find out how much a subscription. I had to insist to get her to go to the pool and organize everything. And she said she did not go, because I was embarrassed to strain - I'd have to bring her to swim home. Maybe I behaved like a goat, but why, then, Mary, who did not do anything - the sacrifice and the good? She renounced her desire to please me - and nothing good is not led ...

Why do so can often hear that women are not good luck to the men? These zhertvenitsy and martyrs, with all its splendor like a magnet attracted to the person gulёn and loafers, and has not yet come to life, and bringing them to his neck. Alas, the good women are not fluent in life. More precisely, I do not want to perceive it such as it is. And in a relationship, they are guided by their personal views on life, not reality. For them, as it is not important. The main thing - how. Therefore, meeting a man they did not see it for what it really is. And so the relationship with him, they called a lot of love, true feelings or something like that.

Of course, at some point, blinding feelings can pass. But in this case, a good wife will do everything as it is necessary - to try to save the family. Sacrificing personal comfort, of course. In good so decided.

One very neprekrasny day Nastya decided to part with Maxim. -Love Love, but because both are married, with children, and someone else's misfortune happiness can not be built. In general, they met for the last time, cried and went as ships at sea - each to his berth. True happiness anyway so no one halt. Maxim's wife could not forgive him, and they lived badly, Nastia husband himself had an affair at work.

  In general, Anastasia became respectable, but unhappy.

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