It seems to be a conscious search for relationships without much affection (and therefore compliance), it is rather a male trait. But if you think so, then you have the rare instance that you avoid a collision with an avalanche of feminism, and poor knowledge of the worth of modern women.
Nastia came to Moscow from a remote province, he prefers not to talk about. For almost ten years of his life in the city that have passed since her arrival, she was, as befits intelligent and knows his own worth the girl was able to arrange a personal life with the greatest benefit for themselves. Now on the page with a residence permit in her passport it is a very different stamp, and she Nastia - a married woman, quite happy.
It does not happen, you fyrknete. Hollywood for the poor, swam - we know. Sometimes, I assure you. Just as our psyche plays a dirty trick on us. We tend to exaggerate the successes of others and reduce their own, such simulations is laid in childhood, when we are constantly compared with the other boys and girls (not in our favor, of course). Therefore, someone's life may seem idyllic, but nothing, in fact, not.
Take the story of Anastasia. It really is an example of successfully fate. But let's face it, many women came to Moscow from the provinces, and do much more dizzying career. What Nastia? Her husband, of course, is good, but likes to drink, and does it so often that the only people scattered in the street Pool make out it treacherous symptoms typical household alcoholism.
But Nastia was not discouraged. She is, perhaps, many of the provinces, not in the habit of experiencing the illusion, preferring to take a sober look at life and the surrounding things. She married at age 30, without being a model and they have had virtually no ties and opportunities. What here illusion?
- Well, then share a secret - I say. After so many good girls in the country with similar data and wants to meet her prince.
But Nastya shrugs, saying that there is no secret. If a woman aims at marriage and is making the necessary efforts, it can quickly achieve the desired, she said. The future Nastya's husband for all his faults there was a big plus, which had little to compare. Against this background, the dignity of the other two candidates, which the present considered as potential husbands - just faded. He was ready to get married. Really. So they went to the registrar, and Nastya steady hand has put his signature on the documents, even though she knew perfectly knew about all his bad habits.
- Once all this is not very romantic - I say it. Does a woman's soul so hardened and imbued with cynicism that marriage turns into some sort of business plan that just methodically implemented? As well - in our time and marriage without love ...
All, of course, understandable. These girls like Nastya, indeed, very prosaic, almost biological approach to the choice of a partner. "Yes, behind him two failed marriages - but thanks to him I have acquired the status of a married woman; yes, he drinks - but he has his own apartment, and we are living away from his parents; Yes, it is not too earns well - but fun with him, and he still calls me "baby", although I have since recovered 10 kilograms. In the end, he chose me, and in fact we have three million free women only one bachelor, and how many men at the same time prefer their own kind "- something like this, they argue.
- Well, maybe I do not really experienced some very passionate feelings, when she married. But now, after nine years of marriage, the husband of my dearest and closest person - says Nastya. "Including" the head at the right time, I made the right choice. And there are shortcomings at all. Ideal even the right of men do not exist. The issue of coexistence with them - it is a question of how a woman is ready to make compromises and to remain silent at a critical moment.
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