The responsibility for family and children - a difficult burden. In women, this feeling often very strongly developed. Sometimes so much that it prevents them from safely be: not too many significant things cause they have the strongest feelings, or they wind themselves concern because that has not happened yet.
Often, hyper-responsible mothers and wives of the girls grow up, whose upbringing was too strict, someone punished with strict parents who demanded too much. Growing up, they have to constantly overcome their uncertainty and the fear of being "does not conform", and it happens usually in two scenarios: either these women turn into timid shy inconspicuous mice, or vice versa - are a bitch, who are trying to put out their doubts self-confidence and the desire to subjugate .
But all the time to be on the ball - even if not in a career, so in the home, in the family - you need to be very strong. However, in life anything may happen, and there are times when energy and effort is not enough. Break, to feel that everything that happens is meaningless and useless in this case it is very easy to ...
"With my husband we are together 10 years, have two children - she said. Everything seemed to be fine, but suddenly had the feeling that I have never really loved. That's when he appeared, the man who treated me as her husband is no longer treated ... If it were not for the children, I would have left her husband and went to him without hesitation. But the year I lived in two houses, deceiving all around, and eventually turned into a ruin: nothing else do not want nothing pleases, I feel devastated, sick and infinitely tired ... In general, broke up with him, returned to the family, but I'm afraid that even this regret " .
This sad story is a model of family crisis, Burst from the monotony of everydayness, of hackneyed monotonous flow of life. Women sometimes feel that what they have - too small. That they could be much better, brighter, more interesting. His family and the relationship with her husband, they begin to evaluate how annoying load, interference, something disturbing them to get more opportunities, money, joy - in short, anything that would make them happy. And the more rigorous and demanding them to yourself, the more there is no one trying to fit a high level, they mentally set for ourselves - the harder their dissatisfaction with their own family circumstances.
To get out of this depressive trap, you need to learn to appreciate life in all its minutiae, and accept everything that happens in it as what it should be. But you need to do a lot of internal work, in the end, really want is to be happy in his family. So, alas, not at all.
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