If you have male friends with whom you can speak frankly, most of them - I am sure - will say the same thing. They complain about the sex.
With women after meeting and candy buketnogo period relationships occur amazing metamorphosis. They magically disappears desire sex . Well, that is, sexual relationship Of course, there are. But as a rule women's flare of passion is related to hormonal splashes in the body - and, therefore, it is irregular and unpredictable. But a woman was ready sex as recklessly as the beginning of the relationship, - alas, alas ...
Living together is definitely more difficult than dating - wonder of all kinds of human relationships, married (according to psychologists) are the most difficult. Pile on a lot of things at once: domestic and financial problems, leisure, family, daily routine ... And yet - so workaday, ordinary, routine ... A woman in such a situation does not stand up first. Joint life she can begin to perceive as dull existence, which for her is less joy. Manipulation also help, at least temporarily remove the mental stress and feel control over the situation. Therefore, women are so readily manipulated, including sex. Just what is wrong - the man blocked access to the body.
Meanwhile, sex - is the main driving force, encouraging the young man to seek marriage. And when he realizes that the sexual relationship Who were the first time in his marriage has or may not be, he begins to think that a woman needed her only as a means of achieving domestic purposes and frustration. Then, on the rise - resentment and anger.
Destructive feelings piling up, spread to other areas of marriage and family unclaimed sexual energy can find a way of links on the side.
" I asked if she gets an orgasm? He says: "no." It turns out that it give pleasure to other poses. And we four years together ... My question is, why only now on said, replied that thought, I've had to guess ".
Yeah. So, in my opinion, and just before the divorce ...
In Moscow, conducted a study of couples who have broken up before the onset of the spouses 30 years. And it turned out that two thirds of women 3 years after divorce regret the disintegration of the family, blame themselves for what happened and want to restore the relationship. Among men guilty he considers himself half, but the majority (75%) do not want to return to the marriage.
Yes, a husband and wife can have different temperaments and thus needs. But if there is a difference, it must be discussed. To speak frankly, do not hesitate to all their desires and unwillingness. Partner lot may be unaware. A "game in a silence" leads to mutual frustration and complexes.
Say it enough times a week, and his soul asks every day, we can agree on two - three sexual acts weekly. A woman is sometimes to go forward without the bright desire limited to oral or manual sex (I believe it is not the idea!). And, of course, not for what he brought garbage or salary offered. And because both love each other.
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