The age difference between children affect their character

It has long been proved that the formation of the child's personality affects not only the social environment, but also the presence of his family in the other siblings. The age difference between the children, too, plays a role, and that parents will depend on whether they bring up independent, strong man, and will make of his child dumb nurse.

According to psychologists, the biggest problems moms and dads subsequently delivered the children who grew up in a family of one. Because sometimes parents have on their child's hopes, they try it different methods of education and are sometimes forced to build their child the way of life, by which themselves had once wanted to go.
However, the dream of the older generation do not always coincide with the wishes of the younger, so the family started fighting, affecting the child's relationship to his parents. Children or closed as soon as possible with a light heart to leave the "nest" or taking the will of the mothers and fathers, "break" from the inside, and obey them already around. There is a third option - a child brought up in a family of one, can grow selfish. From it not be easier to either him or his closest relatives.

Raising twins, most of the parents makes one, and so have the same error. They do not notice the difference in the nature and preferences of children. "Averaging" their thoughts and wishes, moms and dads develop their collective thinking. A person deprived of his own opinion, it is necessary to bend until, until he finds the strength to change stance.

The same problem arises in families where brought up the same age. Parents believe the difference a year trifling and educate their children on an equal footing. As a result - the eldest son or fall behind in their development or younger did not feel the taste of childhood, as all his youth will try to catch up with your brother or sister.

Children in the difference in the age of more than 12 years, waiting for more, not less severe test. However, it concerns only the eldest child in the family. Younger parents are likely to always remain "the navel of the earth." But that's not the point. Taking care of baby, mom and dad in any case should not do from the "adult" babysitter. In adolescents at this time just beginning his own personal life. He is going through a difficult period, and it is necessary to communicate with their peers and not be in the service. At the same time, of course, eldest child has to help his family. This will make it more responsible and disciplined.

According to experts, the ideal   the age difference between children   It is 4 years. By the time the elder is no longer so dependent on mom and dad. It takes communication with peers, but he still plays with toys. Newborn 4-year-old kid will be happy. He would be happy to spend time next to the little man, apart from his rival in the fight for parental love. However, to hold him "educational conversation" (for prophylaxis) will still be necessary.

Psychology

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