Imagine you real hard in love. But the object of your passion meets you in return. And years you both so much, that sex is not just possible, but necessary, especially since sex You no nonsense wonderful.
We with my girlfriend all the time it was so, as soon as we found ourselves at me, and sexual sparks flew in all directions. But barely rested after the climax, my friend began to hastily assemble themselves in Kuzminki. And no amount of persuasion could not leave the girl in the apartment - the night with me, she did not agree for anything. This unexplained, unmotivated obstinacy did not yield any logic. But the idea that my friend can be sexual phobia I then head did not come.
In fact, the expression " sexual phobia "Only at first it seems terribly trivial, exotic. Distributed among us, it is the ordinary people, these sexual problems much broader than you might think. Sexuality is closely intertwined with psychology and psychological man in the modern world full of stress - very vulnerable. Strong emotions and trauma invariably affect the sexual behavior and often result in unexpected sexual nuances. For example, a phobia.
The phobia is characterized by fear? It is more intrusive and powerful, harder to get rid of it and keep under control. Sometimes the nature of the sexual phobia can be understood: for instance, rape can lead to Androphobia - fear of men. But often (and this is the main problem), these sexual problems poddyuetsya no rational explanation: run them psychic mechanism may be too deep and remain outstanding.
Of course, if a woman wears a condom in her purse, still not sure that she had a phobia. It is possible that this is just a reasonable concern and precautions. But even if during sex, she is afraid of contracting, and all her emotions in a moment of intimacy associated with a possible disease, the problem venerofobii obvious: people with a phobia can not remove from the minds of disturbing thought, even in love.
What else have sexual phobia:
- Phobias associated with a sense of disgust may indicate psychological clamp and be the result of neurosis or even specific psychological trauma, especially child.
- Phobia security, in which a person is afraid that his sex can be a witness (eg, afraid to have sex in a room with a large window, afraid to be then at some porn video on the Internet, or is afraid to make a sound, so as not to heard, etc.). Often a phobia provoking a negative experience, when a person is "caught" in his youth.
- Phobia associated with the preferences of a particular type of sex and categorical rejection of others, such as anal or oral sex . That is, if a woman is afraid of the same anal sex This is not always the pathology: maybe she just was unsuccessful previous experience. However, if it always seems that the partner and only does what it is trying to turn his back - and that causes panic and dramatically reduces the desire - it is likely, we are talking about phobias, complicating life.
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