Sexual fantasies of women: what does it mean?

Sexy dream is not forbidden to anyone. But how often do women share with your confessions about his imaginary partner? If so, then fantasized fun and just wanted to impress. When the dream really do it secretly. Mainly out of fear seemed like a man not that to which he was accustomed. Even women themselves afraid of their own imagination ...

If you imagine yourself (and myself) knows that the sexual, it does not mean that you are not sexually satisfied or that inside you is hiding some vicious thrust. Very often sexual fantasies   are the result of a purely emotional experiences, the psychological stress caused by not too pleasant everyday circumstances.

Sexualization, in which experiences are transformed into imaginary intimate performances - it is quite a healthy defense mechanism of the psyche. When the secret erotic desire is realized without negative consequences, then the mind is freed from the yoke of stress. But sex game, composed of imagination, helps liberated only on condition that the psychological problem is not too deep. Sometimes, unfortunately, it happens that people "flirt" ...

Lisa has not been able to talk about what was bothering her. Blushed, mumbled generally looked utterly confused. We agreed that the doubts it put in writing, once the loud hard. And a note: "I have my husband and I are fine, but I'm very worried. Although I have never provided in the same bed with a woman, but bumping into the image of lesbian, I'm looking for some instant ... "

We are talking about her relationship with her father. As it turns out, is not easy. He was a small military commander, the soul of the company with the friends and despotic in his own house. As a child, Lisa suffered a great deal because my father sometimes behaved very rude to the mother and her husband ... Kostya had to seek in a bitter struggle with rivals - the women around him and curled. But the one with whom she had a crush, family life appeared reticent to Nordic severity. Their foreplay at best - a few kisses and undoing buttons. Still I do not like that her husband never fit just so - kiss, caress ...

  Lisa has been no particular feelings for the woman, she lacks affection on the part of men. This desire is transformed into the image of the homosexual as lesbian scenes most often show a more sensual. Plus, a woman subconsciously believes that the representative of her gender is better than the man knows how to please. But if sexual fantasies   You imagine yourself in an active role, it may indicate that you are not confident in your ability to give pleasure to the beloved.

What to do in such a case? For starters try to create romance. Surround yourself with things that hint at what you want tenderness. Talk to the man about how he excites you, with tenderness to touch it, and in the bedroom, try to have sex without penetration - in all variations.

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