Love is wicked...

In 20 years, Nick passionately in love with a man, his peers. In total, they had been together for seven years - agreed, disagreed, lived together, parted on different cities, and when he got married, she was his mistress ...

Now everything Nick recalls with irony and says quietly that her ex-favorite was, in fact, dishonorable goat. Went to her drink, eat and sleep, never anything did not spend and did not even stuttered about the help. And she, at least early and became independent and was not looking at the world through rose-colored glasses, fed him meals and took care of as it could. Why, as she says, not kicked this parasite vzashey, turned a blind eye to his infidelity and generally behaved as the last fool - and she does not understand. Mysteries of love. Now Nicky has a husband who does not work anywhere two or three years. First, came under reductions in crisis, and that's something still does not find himself ...

It seems   men and women   strange effect on the latter. Psychologists confirm this. American family psychologist Deborah Dunn released a book Stupid about Men: 10 Rules for Getting Romance Right («Stupidity in relationships with men: the 10 commandments proper romance"). The name already, I think, can say a lot.

Deborah Dunn writes about women who fall in love, "dorisovyvayut" of the perfect lover and simply ignores the obvious signals that he is no match for them, that their health and budget are now under threat. According to the psychologist, a woman (unlike men) biologically set up to create a stable couple, and much more than a man, afraid to be alone. Nature and centuries stories, when a woman a fully depended from the man, led to the fact, that a woman became practically the programmed on the life of next to with a man. Rupture of relations frightens a woman, because which contradicts the her instinct sozdatelnitsy and violates the its representation about the vital stability.

For this reason, women are willing to play the role of saviors and educators, until recently without giving up his "mentoring" object. A degree of stupidity female behavior depends on how far women are willing to go in its educational perseverance.

In general, read. Of course, in this book it reflected only a private opinion about men and women . But it is at least sobering, and it is always helpful.

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