How to please him at a party?

My girl friend Irina New Year's Eve suddenly discovered that will celebrate the holiday alone. As it turned out, no man wanted to accompany her and invite her to any banquet. She was very upset and even cried when she was never seen again.

Sometimes I notice that the girls made up the misconception that really excites men .  They think that it is, first of all, some artibuty appearance .  Female sex is spending a huge amount of manpower and resources to achieve only he understood the ideals or starts from complexes about the fact that men can see them without make-up, painted, vybelivaet hair and doing a lot of things .  But, as shown by many psychological tests, perfect figure, beautiful clothes and makeup competent important for us, for the macho, only in pictures .  In real life, millions of normal men are not looking for no glamor for them is much more important, if a woman is similar in spiritual qualities .  With full responsibility I can say that our brother might be immaterial lack of makeup, messy hair, slouching, self-doubt and other disadvantages .  If a woman really close, they can be at it all though - it still does not hurt to be admired .

I certainly do not want to advise women to urgently acquire dirty hair and cease to care for themselves. But to dwell on appearance is not necessary. The ideal figure, the face - all wonderful. Just ideal for everybody.

In general, women who remain in the New Year without male attention, divided into two groups. The first - those who knowingly has no interest in the male sex (reasons for this could be a bunch - celibacy, an innate aversion to men, not the orientation, etc.). The second consists of women with excessive demands derived from inflated self-important. That is especially difficult to captivate a man, also deserve to his royal person they consider mythical characters who never in his life did not smell socks. Explore the girls in the crowd is easy: it's not like they offend one look, a gesture or a word, a large proportion of men are looked down upon.

Of course, flirting - it is very subtle, and for every man must be chosen private key. It so happens that we do not understand hints until until hear "I really like you." But it's not scary. The main thing - remember that we should not be too assertive if your gestures are ignored.

Women often do not know where to start. Start by talking. It is better if it is not too serious, but not too superficial. Talking about work, money, diets and children better not like to complain about the hard life and difficult relationship with their relatives with a detailed listing. The most loyal topic - discuss the film or show, a song or a new weather, the positive list of topics about which we can say, in general, large. Behave without affectation and hypocrisy - natural and sincere women in men's eyes much more attractive cold six-foot blonde with number five.

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