At the weekend I needed to go to the hardware store, and wander there for half an hour, I realized that women are interested in all sorts of useful pieces to repair at least us men. Probably even more. They expertly examine and select the nails, tape, paint, laminate, cement, and much more. Repairs in the house is no longer the prerogative of men. Women own example proves this: they feel confident in the department of materials, the brigade commander of migrant workers, repairmen, and do not hesitate to glue wallpaper and shpaklyuyut wall. In short, they can do and are doing almost everything.
Is it easier on the man? Yes, as you say ... When a woman feels "workhorse" in the words of one of my friend, it is difficult to perceive how tender and defenseless creature. Just come to this and that is scary. The paradox is that the ubiquitous role here, grip and punch hozyaystvennitsy, superintendent and superintendent in one of the woman can be very heavy and unloved. She would dress, heels and anywhere chat with her friends over a cup of martini, but it instead in a threaded bushing picks. How can you not hate everything?
Of course, the first gets on the hot hand man. "House him to do something is not questioned," - such a verdict is issued to our brother indignant women. But in fact men are usually very consistent in their actions. If one of them does not perform domestic work, it does not mean that he gave up doing it - he certainly did not do it before.
I know many women can now say something like, "In my whole house, I do everything and more, and it does not separate from your favorite couch." But think and honestly admit to ourselves, why are you so screamed. Psychologists say that the majority of women suffer from perfectionism and the eternal desire to be loved at any cost, even if they deny it for the sake of themselves present.
Women often do something with the expectation to receive from his men something in return, and thus often feel unfairly used ones. But the family makes sense to do the job, or disinterested, or not completely fulfill its pre izzhiv all their female complexes. Otherwise the shopping funnel starts to suck deeper and deeper, and in five years we get a wife who hates family life breaks down evil upon the children, and a husband who hates his wife himself.
And if you want a man to change his "wrong" behavior in the home, you need to change your. To begin with, for example, you can try to stop feeling guilty for the state of the apartment, though, because no personal guilt in this. Or, try to understand why a man is not eager to invest in the power of home improvement.
Maybe because he feels like a party here - a stranger?
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