Smart women, instead of breaking the man's character, using his own bad habits for the benefit of themselves. But even they, unfortunately, are often inconsistent. In addition, these women are, unfortunately, rare.
I'm sure many have heard that the man next to be taken for what it is. This idea, in general, even banal. But the problem is that it is incredibly difficult to perform commonplace in real life. Psychologists say that in 90 cases out of 100, we want our partners to change. And what is the essence of almost all family quarrels - is not complaining about the fact that the partner does not meet certain desirable traits? 90 out of 100 - meaning that almost everyone wants their partner to change in relation to their personal wishes. It brings emotional satisfaction - life is good, "it is this what I wanted! ".
The fair sex - the main potrebitelnits in the modern world, it is not a secret. The consumer society teaches them to be very concentrated on themselves. This is a problem because it destroys all of the motivational circuit. If a woman wants to achieve such relationship, when she and only she was the most important person to her partner, she should not dwell on yourself. If there had been with him the other - and it will lose, because such a primitive creature like a man instantly responds to the shown him kindness and attention.
Here Lesch and Irina. When they started living together, he did not do anything around the house. And now - almost anything really. If five years ago I was someone drew a picture that I saw recently, I would not have believed it. I thought that in turn Lёshu confident householder could only be something paranormal.
However, there is no magic here, probably would have said some British scientists. Women's manipulations fit well into the logic of behavioral analysis, which is able to adjust the behavior of even quite neproshibaemyh seemingly personalities. I myself now believe that if a man is changing, then work on it a woman. After watching a bit of the relationships in Lёshinoy family, I came to the conclusion that a wise policy on women accomplishes miracles that really fit well into the logic of behavioral analysis and therefore understandable.
What does a wise woman? What is a man like any other man can not rehabilitate. But does this mean that the man will remain the way it has been and will continue to stay that way? No! The woman begins to inculcate the habit of a man that she wants to see in it, and learn to ignore all its minuses. The gradual development of habits of men certainly will after some time, a remarkable result, and it is better suited for this method of positive encouragement, I'm not kidding. Give a man to begin with some simple task - to prevent the mess. And with a sense thank for their work, even this trifle, in your opinion, it is not worth the compliments. And try to use such a scheme often. I am a witness - a tactic works wonderfully positive encouragement.
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