In terms of evolution of relations, the extinction of living sexuality in a couple of people quite naturally. Women find it difficult to be a goddess every day a man gets used to her house slippers and fears another beremennosti.Takova life, and nowhere on it does not go. Caught his partner in the virtual sex in such a situation is likely. But whether it can break up a family?
By itself, a betrayal of a loved one is not terrible. Problems arise from the fact that the views of the two men in a pair, the question of infidelity differ. I have a real life example, when my wife left her husband after learning about his frivolous correspondence with the kind of "Angel", her husband fell asleep deeply intimate revelations. Not just gone, of course. Six months later - after walking to a psychologist, undergoing depression and doubt with a small child. My husband did not think that changes, and no serious quarrel with them, by the way, was not, and he helped his wife to do the housework as usual. But she felt that between them there is no previous affection, confidence and sensuality, she could not shake the feeling that her husband leads a double life, and this poisonous feeling poisoned everything and tormented her.
It is necessary to negotiate, to determine what is possible and what is strictly prohibited, it would be considered a breach of fidelity, and so yourself, just a spice to give zest to the relationship. Together. So that both understood that this is a trait which is going, it can be considered a traitor. Such an agreement with your partner will help avoid conflicts caused by mutual misunderstanding, when one partner is tormented "as he could ..." and the second only shrugs: "What's so ...". But if you decide to forgive infidelity, goodbye once and for all, no return to the topic, without memories, allusions and references in conversations, and if that fails, it is better to break off relations, not to torment each other.
Psychologists say that most men change for two reasons: first - they lack diversity in sexual life, the second - is not enough understanding and warmth of the woman . When women hear about it soon becomes annoying . They can name a thousand and one counter-argument, proving the corruption of men and dubiousness of their habits and inclinations . All this is true, but to solve the problem of cheating in a relationship is possible only in two ways: either you are willing to accept the partner and start to change, or to pack and divide marital property . Otherwise everything will go so far that life really be hell . Here Ira and Sergei, civilian spouses . After relations were rapidly deteriorate, she changed it several times . Sergey constantly reproached il that she is a bad hostess, can not cook and run the household . Defensively from undeserved insults, Irina became irritable and quick-tempered . However, she remembered that the man has recently been gentle and caring, and she wanted to keep the relationship . Trying to cope with the conflicting emotions, Ira decided to look for solace in the arms of strangers . No wonder they say that cheating is like a virus . But despair to an extreme degree when her presence is not necessary, in fact, this simple, even mundane action . Most of the problems are related not with the act committed, and with all that is with him, anyway, and is linked slepleno . It is better to think about it .
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