Recently, I came across another interesting statistic. American sociologist Jennifer Gauveyn interviewed more than a thousand women who survived the divorce awhile ago and found that 30 percent of these women were married by necessity. Entering into marriage, they knew from the beginning, that the their elect - no not the second polovinka. The reason for marriage in these cases was age: women no longer hoping to find a suitable partner in life and go beyond those proposed marriage - in the hope that will get used and still receive a full family and long-awaited child.
Another poll, in turn, showed that young and successful women aged 25-30 years, the only drawback believe his lack of status of married women.
No matter how developed feminism in modern society, the vast majority of women still yearns for marriage. Partly because realized instinctive need to be a mother. In our society, it is considered to be decent to have children in the family, and marriage becomes important, if not the main condition for the desired maternity (childbearing "for himself" is still perceived more as an extreme case). And closer to thirty desire to marry may increase so that it becomes almost the meaning of life. Women compare themselves with their friends who have already managed to give birth to two, and there is a need to create a family. Add to this the social pressure: it is assumed that a woman should marry until a certain age. And if you think it's outdated, wrong.
A friend of mine, located in the most dangerous age, firmly stated that certainly will marry within a year. A month after the announcement, she met a young man, it is a suitable candidate for a high rank of her husband, three months after they broke up, and a month later he married another. Perseverance desire can push a woman to marry a man whom she too would like to marry. But this haste is more a result of the pressure of society and not call natural instincts.
Psychologists say that in your mind you need to get rid of malignant setting "must". When a woman understands that nothing anyone should, then six months later she really wants But with "want" easier to find the right man, no longer barriers to improve relations. After all, in fact, every woman knows how to captivate a man. This inner natural mechanisms, and they are very effective!
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