I found myself an unwitting witness to the scene in the store. At such times, once lost. Why it is impossible to figure out how best to proceed. The first impulse - to intervene: it has an adult child, strong torturing the weak, no matter how weak the varmint, and how strong morally difficult, in any case, he hurts. But to interfere in other people's relationships are not accepted. It is considered offensive to teach parents to educate children, not being myself so. In addition, here - a mother. A mother always knows what is best for her child - no one knows where this jibe 'truth', but it usually is proclaimed as a fact, brooked no argument.
In general, I still broke. And he received a verbal resistance, which can not now play ... quite predictably, of course. But at least this strange situation for me personally not be stopped. I can not get rid of the feeling of wonder at the fact that women who are so outraged men's rudeness towards them themselves easily spread by hands and tongue to communicate with their children. And the existence of such a double standard in an environment quite comfortable feel.
Why women beat their children? I am sure I am not the only one who at least once in his life asked this question. In one of the psychological magazines I came across interesting information. In the US for 20 years went one study on domestic violence against children. So, it shows that where there is a child, the mother and father, as well as the present corporal punishment for such a method of education is increasingly using women. And in most cases, the beatings, which causes a mother to her child - is the result of experience, which has been taken over by his mother, the grandmother has a small sacrifice. Statistically, if the girls spanked at least once a week, then they, as adults, 50% more likely than the rest, physically punish children. And this experience of physical punishment adopt mothers, girls, whereas boys he did not "stick."
Do you think that I believe that a woman from the store evil fury? Not at all. I can readily believe that it is a hundred times already apologized to his son, repented and vowed never to do it any more. The problem is that just pleaded guilty to assault and battery, most women - and still beat. Of course, purely humanly possible to understand that in the heat of passion there is a desire "to be like" the little varmint. Especially because he really can not a child "blow off the nerves" and "spoil blood" to their parents. But take a beating for the opportunity to educate you can not under any circumstances. Because it would mean that brute force for the child will be the main way to achieve their own, and instead learn to communicate, he will learn to repress and subjugate. In particular, after a while, their own parents.
Beating and oppression - it is the highest point of his own impotence, especially mental. It beats the one who can not agree on who knows how to fix the situation differently, who are unable to cope with their own aggression. Many analysts believe that Loupian child, adult gets rid of the internal stress caused by psychological imbalance and sexual dissatisfaction. That's why I told the lady from the store then that behavior problems are not with her child. And she herself.
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