Mania cleanliness

For the first time about the problems Kathy (not her real name, now I can not name) began her husband. Calm, balanced usually a man, he felt that soon will be broken - it became utterly annoying habit of his wife, constantly tracking the cleanliness and order in the house ...

"It always seems that I'm all alone in the house of damage is not as it should be their bed, for example, or dish washing dishes after I place ... But do not misunderstand, I am not saying this to show that I just and busy household chores. Quite the contrary. Katya strive to fulfill itself, in some it is only accessible manner. But my attempts to help her cause that she starts nervously keep track of what I'm doing - and so constantly is not the first year. She excessive love of order. She needs all the wrinkles were smoothed out on blankets, and my clothes out of the closet can give it to me only because "after you there mayhem! ". If something is placed so that the way it should lie, nor a millimeter is not shifted. Otherwise - hysterical, scandal, crazy ... "- says Yegor. He wanted to know how to resolve this situation in the house, which has already become bring it to a white heat.

I know many members of my sex say that their wives pathological cleanliness only because they themselves are unable to maintain order. But women often without even knowing it, are victims of an aggressive television advertising and really overdoing. The roller miracle cures that are washed clean, to clean, to wash, you look beautiful, well-kept house sparkling clean. And the weaker sex, watching, tends to put things in their brilliance and luster to get closer to the ideal.

Sigmund Freud believed all women desire to constantly scrape and clean the manifestation of sexual dissatisfaction .  However, as many analysts believe, the concept of "sexual frustration" means not only sensitive intimate sphere, but also deep emotional area of ​​female consciousness .  Simply speaking, a woman can be obsessed with cleanliness, not only because of problems with orgasm, but also due to the fact that disappointed - relationships, career, that have not been fulfilled her dreams ... The obsession to order sometimes traced takeover parents experience (she is because her mother all his life in the apartment with a rag ran), but as a rule, there lie deeper psychological motives .  For example, a woman accustomed to: "I'm always right" .  But when dealing with others to implement this principle does not work .  Cleaning in such a situation could easily become a way of self-affirmation .  "Divan will be the only way, and I'll wash the floors, do not care about that for two hours the night .   "Well, or something like that .

Solve the problem (excessive cleanliness and ability to become a serious problem for the relationship in the family until their breakup) may, if you switch "chistogolika" with cleaning apartments for a solution to their internal and external conflicts.

But you need to seek professional help, a doctor.

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