What does not need to speak with a man

All marriages fail from the misunderstanding. Well, that is certainly included also other factors. But the root of all evil - the inability to understand their partner. If women often think about it, it would behave in such a way that the man they knew. And then everyone would be happy.

When my parents quarreled, they were talking at once, and it was funny, and sad. It seemed to me that in his adult life, I will not make that mistake. Still, at least illogical - to speak in a raised voice to another man: who and what is heard at the same time? But of course, I then rushed to conclusions. Women somehow also begins to find out a relationship with me in one voice ... So, using the moment to say: girls,   Know how to listen . I know that there is a special feminine energy, which is included in the most inopportune moment, but if you speak without interrupting, your relationship will benefit.

Still - that, too, is inexplicable - among the fair sex is very popular complementary theory. Due to glossy magazines, women perceive men primitive creatures, easy to train. And I think that is to say to one of these louts couple of compliments, as much as possible do not stand on ceremony with him. But in fact, the best compliment for a man - it's a compliment, said his brothers about his girlfriend (ideally, of course, and as you can about the car, or columns, for example). Therefore, if you are Praise   its second half, make it so that there are no doubts your sincerity. Moreover, an excess of praise for any reason generates a habit of getting compliments effortlessly - your half will not strain to hear the words to which it is already used. And you also do not like it first.

I have often heard the same woman's complaint, "I told him so many times ...". I agree, it's very annoying when a person behaves as if he had not been told a thousand times that you can not do. But nothing changed. Men - children and their mothers are trained to react to it emotionally positive. So if his way to throw clothes in the apartment robs you of peace and normal sleep, try to stop doing dissatisfied remarks. And start notice any glimmers   order. When he realizes that it pleases you, change for the better, I'm sure. Of course, initially it will hang five shirts on a hanger, but if you explain, then they pomnutsya and he can not wear them, and master this wisdom. You find the right tone - and hang as you advised.

If a man is interested in something serious, it is better not to criticize . Of course, there is no law that forbids men to break off a conversation with a friend during a discussion of yesterday's football match. Especially if you urgently need to take out the trash. But just think, how can you serious about the person for whom the pure trash is more important than friendship?

Of course, not all men are interested in football to oblivion. Perhaps you yourself know of. But to say men from her past   - Is the best way to spoil the relationship, even if not the most. Especially if this information is presented as a comparison. Man's consciousness does not share the romance and bed and all your sympathy to the stranger perceived sexual overtones. And if you are really important to keep focus, draw conclusions.

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