Maternal instinct is not at every

It is believed that the birth of a child is absolute and immutable happiness for every woman, but the Western psychologists have increasingly come out with a warning against this cliché. According to experts in the process of motherhood for women faced with a number of negative factors that are ignored or overshadowed by joy and advertising ideas about communicating with your child. "Maternal Instinct defining tender love to their child, I laid not every mom" - say experts.
Numerous observations show that not all women after the birth of the baby imbued with goodness to the newborn. Often a young mother remains fairly neutral with respect to the child, as focused on their own feelings, and that was all over. And each case is different and requires a special approach and work with a specialist, which could take into account the particular circumstances in the history of women.

The majority of women maternal instinct   It laid genetically and is already apparent at the time of his childhood in the form of games with dolls and daughters and mothers, and as they grow older makes itself felt more and more obvious, experts explain. However, it is not always evident from the birth of the first child.

In some cases maternal instinct   wakes up to two or three months of the baby, and even later. The reason for this deceleration experts explain the fact that people have long been separated from the animal world, and many of the natural coping mechanisms are now useless. In the animal world the maternal instinct allows the calf to survive only thanks to his displays of entire species breed successfully. In humans, the safety of the child does not depend on the manifestations of the maternal instinct for many generations.

Absolute maternal coldness, according to the researchers, may be associated with personality pathology or serious adverse childhood experiences. Also, because of the total lack of maternal instinct may be acute neuro-psychiatric diseases and malfunctions of the hormonal system.

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