Honey, it's blackmail!

The fact that the female sex - this is a great master of the blackmail, I realized even in his wild childhood. Marina G., a girl with such a sweet little nose and big bows that she always wanted to look admiringly ...

And here is a miracle to me once said that there will be more in class modeling to sit with me if I did not say where the boys made a secret burial of the May beetle, found while playing on the playground. Little Marina seats threatened to Misha Maltsev, if I do not give it our boyish secrets. And I gave ...

Now, of course, to remember the innocent children is ridiculous threats, although in fact it was the first female Lessons blackmail   - The phenomenon in my adult life, alas, common. I know how a woman can assure that now certainly something to do with it if you do not go to her this minute concessions. It is very difficult moments, and for both partners. Although the situation may somehow razrulitsya, yet the fact that a woman will assume that her behavior was, to put it mildly, not very correct.

Probably, if investigate the problem   emotional blackmail   deep, it can be concluded that the techniques of manipulation we can not help parents learn more. "Do not make a lesson - do not get the internet", "Do not pribereshsya in the room - do not go for a walk on the street," etc. But anyway we manipulate each other, but some emotional blackmail   It becomes almost the main method of communication.

American psychotherapist Susan Foruard, known for its study of nature blackmail , Listed the symptoms, which can calculate the blackmailer. Here they are:

- Blackmailer threatens to suspend relations with you, if you do not give in to anything;

- Looks more distressed and depressed all the time, as long as not fulfilled his desire;

- Promises to complicate your life if you do not make concessions;

- Hints or explicitly said that self-harm, if you do not go to meet him;

- Always wants to get some more, despite the fact that you have already given;

- Accuses you of selfishness, greed, neglect, insensitivity, lack of respect, if you do not grant his request, with permanently or mostly ignore your desires;

- Do not skimp on the praise when you lose and angry and offended if you do differently.

In my opinion, very succinctly! There is something to think about, is not it?

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