Women's resentment: who is to blame?

For us, men, women - being very special. That which a man can not even pay attention, the woman is able to cause a storm of emotions. And this storm very often then falls on his head ...

I do not just have to listen to their friends and friends of the amazing stories of the region showdown. Here, for example, young people live together, all is well. A year later, suddenly it turns out that it is very offended by one thing. So much that at first she was crying, and then a few days with him and talking to him at all does not notice. It turns out - when they recently went for my birthday - he said, "Meet it ...." And he called her name.

And all !!!

He, of course, difficult. What? Where? And most importantly - what sin he had at the same time to make? But logically. He calls her by name only - just like some familiar and not a girl with whom a whole year divides his existence. What conclusions can I do? ABOUT! Other, no doubt. And it gives a very good reason to take offense.

Or here. He calls her and says that he would come a little later, because it promised to lift a colleague home. What? Good, good deed. She does not mind. And then it turns out that the word "colleague" was meant she recently staged his office. The one about which she had asked him. Only then, he said, nothing special, plump. The girl actually looks like a typical dream of the average man. To see this, it was enough to get the password from its page in Odnoklassniki ....

- So, it's your colleague, you shameless liar?

- And you would have liked more than to hear that my car is sitting sexy leggy babe with breast third dimension? - He was genuinely surprised.

And she takes offense ...

By the way, in passing it found that Odnoklassniki he hung photos taken during their joint visit to Turkey. And neither one of them on some suspicious coincidence, is not it. "Honey, you said yourself that turned out badly! "- He explains. But any girl knows, that in this case it is not an argument. Because it just might be even more offensive.

As a man say to our brother is not peculiar to analyze relations in a queue. It's easy to get women to fry eggs for breakfast and to engage in psychoanalysis on the job. Men just can not physically so - because of the primitive structure of the brain. But male insensitivity, which so offends the women explained that only partly. Misunderstandings arise also because women often can not clearly say what they really want, and everything remains unclear. None of them, for example, do not say, "You know, darling, I've accidentally got into your phone and read sms-ku from an unknown to me especially so or tomorrow you lead me to the registry office, or to move to the sofa in the living room." Instead, she arranges a serious conversation, and making sure once again in stupidity partner offended silence for a few days.

The hardest thing in a relationship - not to hoard a grievance, and transform them into the correct energy and direct it in the right direction. But it requires a lot of strength, mental and spiritual, and therefore rarely possible. If you feel that your partner is lying, it is not necessary that it is a pathological liar. Maybe he just did not have enough personal space, and the lack of freedom, he compensates by telling what it sees fit. If a woman is insulting, it does not mean that hurt her on purpose. And if she insists on purpose, then one of two things. Either it muzhchina- finished psychological maniac. Either her paranoia.

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