How to fall in love with a man

I know that the two met, became close, were in the same bed (or vice versa - first appeared), and soon married, may seem just a happy coincidence, obviously, incredible game of fortune. But in fact, on a good relationship (one-time lovers of extreme sports, I warn you once: this post is not for you) to work. You do not want to make an effort - nothing goes.

Marlene Dietrich once said: "Every man is more interested in a woman who is interested in them than a woman who has beautiful legs." This phrase is a good explanation of why men often prefer clever, beautiful (again borrow from the vocabulary of the female) from the category of women "that he found in it." Or why men are so susceptible to "frivolous persons" which attract the stronger sex for the simple reason that they want to like him.

Yes exactly. And do not say that all women want men to please. In fact, many do not want to like men and compete with them to prove that they - weaklings, and that they, the women, cooler, smarter and stronger, and without men do an excellent job. The reasons for this may be different - and children's education, and adult offenses, and the result is the same: that the ladies have to do in a hairdressing and beauty salons, whatever things are currently able to buy all this is often not for men. For myself, for the same girlfriends, and not to the prince saw with astonishment and fell from his horse. And the Prince is well aware.

Of course, all this does not mean that women should be alert to the men, and all the point. Caution and care, of course, a good relationship is mutual. But since I'm this blog to understand women as they look in the eyes of men, I will say this. Men just gut feel that the woman in front of them, or not the same. In psychology, there is a whole theory about how a man chooses his one. There exist - Attention !, - innate needs, and if it meets a woman, he makes a choice. Paul Dobriansky, author of the bestseller "The Secret Psychology of how we fall in love," wrote: "When a man understands, no matter consciously or unconsciously, that before him the same ideal, then the moment comes and love."

Dobriansky reading the book, I decided to share with you the tips of her, which I particularly liked.
 
Ask for his opinion. Another great way to strengthen the man's ego.

  Wear his clothes. This will show him that you are putting it above all other men.

  Share your fears with him. Men, too, are afraid, so they will be pleased to know that you are experiencing, and uncertainty about the future, joining the previously unknown relationships.

  Respect his right to personal space. Let this be a private room, the room, the kitchen or just where he wants to be alone and watch TV. Do not put things in order there! For men, this "hole" - a symbol of independence. You can not take it!

  Be happy. For people who look happy, drawn involuntarily - this instinctive mechanisms of our psyche. Happy woman as the high voltage generator, gathers the whole field of high excitation. Scientists have proved that the person who is in this field is much more likely to fall in love. What do you pretty magnet attracts men. Laugh with them, go to stupid movies, translate into a joke awkward moments during sex. The more he will receive from you a positive, the better.

  And, of course, often feed it tasty. It's the oldest rule conquering men's hearts. And over the years its effectiveness in no way weakened.

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