When a friend - rival

Every woman wants to be happy. In other words, the favorite. But even in the song: for every ten girls on statistics ... well, you know - the man was not enough. Therefore, wittingly or unwittingly, the weaker sex is drawn into the battle for increased male attention. Competitive and sometimes very tough.

A friend of mine a couple was formed not by chance, although a paradox. With her future husband wife in this family once I introduced her friend. Which, I must say, she wanted to be his girlfriend. I met a young man via the internet, agreed to meet - and came to a meeting with a friend. Most likely, for security reasons, which is understandable. But what was to bring the most attractive of her friends - it is a mystery, the key to which is kept in the depths of female logic, which does not get up to any man. In short, I wanted the best, but as a result of a potential suitor has dramatically changed their views on their relationship - married her friend, and she offered to stay friends.

Of course, female friendship   - It's almost family ties .  But to rely on friends in private life, in my opinion, somewhat naively .  Competition laws do not provide companionship among women .  And apply it primarily because more women than men .  For instance, Lena and Zlata, charming little 27-year-old establishment, met once for a glass of tea in his favorite bar - discuss their concerns being, as usual in the young contemporary women .  Soon, at the next table has landed a nice young man, he saw Lena and she obviously liked it .  However, at some point, she went to the bathroom and when I came back, for some reason he has not looked in her direction .  Then they are still talking and he suddenly asked: "Maybe you should not drink so much? "While Lena drank quite a bit ... It appeared as Lena departed, a friend told him that she was pregnant . Why - we can only guess .  But the bars Lena with her longer walks .

But my colleague to know that I am writing this post, shared her story with a friend. They both liked one undergrad. And since both looked at him with eyes of love, then he too flirted with both at once. And at one point, my colleague (then future) climbed into the phone friend to see, talk or not. And to his horror he found that dodgy philanderer sends them in one and the same time the same "text messages". Well, just a word for word.

Women, of course, know that is not good to read other people's letters, and climb into someone else's phone without permission and completely disgusting. Therefore, our heroine did not inform the friend of his action, finding that she suffered doubly because of the treachery of men and their own conscience. Instead, learn from the correspondence that her friend a date, she turned up at the most inopportune moment. And when a sweet couple pretended to be surprised. "Dear Alex, - she said loudly. You invited me to this meeting! "And she showed her friend all the messages that have come from it. Confused Lovelace, of course, withdrew. And the girls continued to be friends, and only occasionally recall the story with a laugh. That, in my opinion, is very rare. Mutual trust in such a situation is undermined, and female friendship   cracks - if there had been a sense of one of the girls a little more serious drama could not be avoided.

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