Very often it turns to psychologists different women, who, oddly enough, describe the same situation. "Here I am, - says, for example, any of them. Watch for yourself, shopping, have a job and housing. A man next to no ... " Here S. 25 years old, a virgin. Not because I never wanted to pay, but just does not trust men and is afraid. Or D. 31 years old, a striking blonde, but very lonely, despite the presence of fans and therefore favors. It wants to fall in love, but alas, no one of the men in their environment does not feel anxious feeling. Some they are not as we would like.
"Her friends got married, had children, and I'm alone at home," - sighs D.
His marriage she imagined at school. With age, these fantasies, of course, change, but the habit of dreaming and submit left. Somehow D. read that thought is material, and if you really want to get something, you need to submit it to myself in detail on a regular basis - in the end persistent mental exercise required to become a reality. The problem is that men who caught D., do not fit into her idea of a happy family. It always seems that they just want to sleep and did not want to bother in order to achieve it, and such a disrespectful attitude D. perceives very painfully.
In fact, fantasy do not interfere with private D. attain happiness. It prevents own uncertainty, fear of doing something wrong. And all that in the behavior of men it seems negative, unacceptable and repulsive - that other, as a projection of their own. D. It should fully love yourself, with all its "strangeness", and it certainly will affect the dialogue with men of their rudeness and "contempt" will disappear because it is in itself a source of energy to replace the negative to the positive.
And here at home - if you really want to find the other half - it is better not to sit. Statistics confirm that most of the dating develops in happy marriages happen by accident, so you need to take every opportunity to go somewhere or to go. Many wealthy, successful and married gentlemen love to raft on the river rapids, skiing, climbing, and your interest in the extraordinary leisure dramatically increase the chances of success. In any event, vigorous activity - much better than to sit for hours on the Net, where herds of inadequate personalities and zhenatikov seeking adventure. Not that in the internet dating is necessary to give up. Just to unnecessarily risk register on popular paid dating sites. So it will be safer.
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