Can men and women be friends, they say, just like that, without a second thought? Personally, I think this question is very strange. Friendship and the friendship of the fact that the relationship did without bed together. But the girls talk in a different way ...
Here I've got a colleague Sinitsin. And she, in turn, have a boyfriend. And boyfriend - girlfriend, sorry for this complicated chain of a personal nature.
Girlfriend - extraordinary personality: speaks five languages, reading French philosophers in the original, singing a capella " Reve ta Stogniy Dnіpr wide "Collects and obscene jokes. In general, my colleague seems so smart, so omniscient that poor Sinitsin at risk to get an inferiority complex. Boyfriend with his girlfriend and ICQ communicate and meet in a cafe to talk intelligently. And Sinitsin terribly afraid that one day he tired of living with the ignorant as she is, after all Sinitsin is not what the French philosopher, but even in his own life that he understands little.
Dear Sinitsin! If you are now reading the blog, do it carefully. Especially for you explain that in a man's life often happens when a man has a girlfriend maternal features and functions as the mother - a mentor, a wise and experienced. It is therefore always possible to ask for advice, not kompleksuya not experiencing that can appear fool. Imagine Sinitsin, a man can not always tell another man come clean - yet all the males in nature anyway competitors. There are themes that are not intended not only for the ears of male otherworldly, but also for family discussion, for example, something from the area of sex. But a wise friend (if any) can share. It's like a therapist to go - and the experts of such men almost turning awkwardly somehow scary.
Sometimes, of course, that Friendship between man and woman It occurs after the amorous adventures experienced together. By myself I know her friends from the category of "ex-girlfriend" or "ex-wife" jealous, so that will not find it. But believe me, when the love affair between a man and a woman goes into a friendship, then the chances that bygone passion flare up again - one hundred thousand. Sexual interest in men over the years dulled or even at all comes to naught. Therefore, the longer his friendship with her friend, with whom he once shared a bed, the less it is to be feared. If a man gets used to the fact that his life has a girlfriend - Minded vest for complaints and a reliable comrade-in-one - he would not want to correct the situation and to drag his fellow fighter in bed. The habit for men - is sacred. And forbids a man to deal with the former, with whom he has long been just friends - is like a child away from the bear, with which he used to fall asleep.
I responsibly declare: sex harms friendship - laid-back attitude after it usually ends. And if a man wants to change, it would prefer to do it all the same not with his girlfriend. And with that woman, whose existence its second half the time and has no idea.
Friendship between men and women First is dangerous only in one case - if it is not true.
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