Whether a woman is not it?

I have repeatedly convinced that women - being paradoxical. If any of these urgent requests to tell her everything as it was, it does not mean that it should be done as in the confessional ...

I know it's not a story that ended sadly and seriously just because of the fact that one of the partners demanded truthful revelations, and the other has confessed and really took on the spirit. Does this mean that each other only need to lie? Of course, no. What sense then do start a relationship? There is another problem. It is that many in the relationship is scary. And women, who generally thinner and is psychological us men feel this fear is particularly frequent. In addition they are richer imagination, which helps them to imagine all sorts of trouble himself.

Coping with fear and feelings can be different. Young children cry. Adults who feel ashamed to cry, trying to sublimate - who wrote the picture, who grows cacti, who go to sewing classes. The desire to know the truth - it is also a way to get rid of internal emotional gravity. But it can help only if a person has enough strength not only to accept the truth, and stand in front of her.

One of my good friend left his wife after being told her the truth about his relationship with another woman. It's hard to say what would happen if his wife would not require him candor and he admitted it honestly. But today, those fleeting extramarital relationships is not in sight. As there is no family that - the truth! - It was very good, excellent.

But what if a woman asks, first confession, and then says that he can not forgive?

You know, sometimes it seems to me that a woman takes a man talking on the upright only because she can not admit it to his doubts. Openly say to another "I do not trust you, you disappoint me" difficult. Simply start looking for flaws and reach a verdict after partner admits: Yes, it was.

One day I said so about his friend. She blushed. "Well, of course - she told me - he, damn it, will go to the left and to the right, and I'll be waiting for him at home and pretend that nothing is happening."

Then I thought that such a relationship is true, as such, in fact, useless. After all, the fact that they exist - just fantastic.

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