In my psychotherapy practice I have often heard stories about relationships, obscenely protracted. Somehow it turns out. A man and a woman form a couple, meet, experience emotional ups and downs. In general, as is usually the case. But with the difference that their relations are long-term instability: there seems to be, and at the same time they are not.
Such a state of prolonged uncertainty is not uncommon. In the words of one of my friends, the arithmetic is simple: women - many men - a little, and good men - even less, so they sometimes have to share. It turns out that the married head of the family can be not only a wife, and at the free - not just mom. But the saddest thing is that this dislocation may stay for years (well, for instance, the story of Arnold Schwarzenegger proves that family and extramarital relationship with a man can coexist for a long time) ...
Tatiana has been sluggish for three years continues a long-standing affair with a married friend. At the time, she delivered an ultimatum and divorce from his wife had seemed imminent, but did not take place. Tatiana offended, quarreling, threw his toothbrush and thought to stop communicating permanently. But a few months later my dear friend again appeared in her life.
He says Tania suited him much more as a wife and a mistress, and she says that building relationship with a man Whose pros and cons have been well studied, - it is easier than starting new ones. The stumbling block - another woman who continues to be for all of its second half.
I think when a man torn between two women, wins, usually the one that does not impose ultimatums, and waits quietly until he makes a final decision. If you push a man to divorce, it could easily be that he will rebel and give something like "you're ruining my life." And find a new passion. There are men who are in the eternal search for his ideal. And if you feel that waiting for the moment when he finally decide and make a choice, it was unbearably painful, it would be better to leave. It is not broke serious depression.
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