"But where they are normal guys? "This bitter question women often explain their loneliness . Here and in the company of friends at a barbecue at the cottage he was also voiced - this time a pretty brunette M . However, M . said it is not bitter, because M . He has always been a strong woman . She did not too big, but quite satisfied with her career, had a son, bought a car, and even seem to pay off the loan for an apartment . With a strong grip and character M . That is called, I do not stand on ceremony with men . It is quite caustically criticized the two men her friends were busy at the grill, and show them how to thread the meat on skewers . Behind the scenes, all took control of other overage idlers and distributed between the preparations for the picnic . What is typical - those listening to M . as pretty: it was like they were afraid of the assertive woman with the habits of the commander of the special forces . Suggest M . anyone of us, men in the company, to fight with it in sparring arm wrestling - I would honestly not surprised .
M. was unmarried. "I do not want to be next to each adult" baby "life" - she explained. And the other men I have not yet come across. "
In fact, M. wanted the same as that of millions of other women - to be near a man for whom, like a stone wall, she felt protected. But Moscow, in my opinion, committed a typical mistake: having the appearance of one of those "stop a galloping horse," she behaved all the time as if it was flying the proverbial horse. And when a man sees a woman is not a single gram of weakness and helplessness, the need to defend it disappears by itself.
The student of Sigmund Freud Swiss psychologist Jung believed that the unconscious of every person there is a particle of the opposite nature - the "anima" and "animus." Anima carries a feminine animus - masculine , And manifest in all nature can both positively and negatively. For example, the negative animus in a woman aggravates the harsh and rugged features. Such a woman often has an unshakable conviction that he was right, and her need to be loved by her man takes exaggerated appearance and comes to total control over it.
Of course, if a woman is highly developed animus, the radical changes it is unlikely to: in a strong fighter will not turn gentle butterfly. But the problem can be solved. Animus because not only has negative characteristics, I have already said. Its positive side - the quality of chivalry machismo : Dignity, thirst for discovery, a clear objective mind and spiritual wisdom. That's on them and need to focus.
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