Revenge of the abandoned women

One of my married friend S. was a secret affair with a woman named Veronica. The dazzling beauty (because of what S. could not finish his adultery) and rare bitch, from which would be tired, even the most patient of men ...

Completely exhausted and tormented by pangs of conscience, St. Veronica said that he had decided to end their relationship (well, after drinking, of course, for bravery). And Veronica, itself a hundred times C. exhibited the door and vowed to replace it with a person worthy of her, suddenly saw this as a betrayal. And I offended.

Soon around their city in the Ivanovo region has become someone to hang out ads with the image and signature of C. "Remember this face! This man is not capable of anything, except how to break someone else's life. " Before his wife S. everything came pretty quickly ...

If I had not turned out to be from time to time an involuntary witness to many episodes of this story may have doubted the authenticity of the events. Too vaudeville. But as he recently learned there is a special statistics, from which it follows that such a method - mailing photos villains, including the intimate, including business contacts in his e-mail - is quite popular among Russian women as revenge departed from these men. According to the degree of demand in second place. On the ground - damage of clothes, furniture, computers, and, of course, very dear to him things from the collections of plates, for example. On the third - the spread in social networks of all kinds of compromising rumors.

I think those who are not faced with such a phenomenon, a faint idea of ​​the power of the energy that produces a wounded female pride. The network has the resources, where abandoned or deceived women can share their experiences. In some online communities, which are a form of group therapy, the girls just be frank with each other. Others are trying to warn potential victims by posting candid photos of offenders and describing their shortcomings. If you're wondering what can "former", read.

Personally, I thought that such sites rather than bring man back to a stable state, a strongly heated resentment and desire for revenge. A constantly maintain calm and prevent resentment sensibly assess the situation - offended woman will never admit that she was wrong, I made a mistake.

To better understand the situation, psychologists recommend in the event of separation written and thoughtful answers to the following questions:
1. What did I do wrong?
2. What was the cause of our separation?
3. Why do I need these relationships?
4. What do I get acquired after his departure?
5. What can I do in this situation?
6. How can I make a difference?
7. What do I really want?

This psychological technique helps not breaking anything rashly. And yet we must remember that there is a big difference between wanting to take revenge on both the first and in many ways a natural impulse for revenge and planning followed by implementation.

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