They say that any woman wants at least once in life to walk in a beautiful dress under the "Wedding March" by Mendelssohn on the arm of the elect. But personally I do not believe in such generalizations. It seems to me that the girls can be a very good reason to cherish their freedom.
For example, the story of my good friend (let's call her Lena), which I know almost from kindergarten. She was about thirty, not a lesbian, not careerist. Time trying to arrange a personal life, is enough. That is, it is her friends believe that the personal life did not suit her. But the Lena thinks that if a person is a good one, it means that no problems had not.
She did not wonder how it is there, in marriage. "I know very well how things will develop, - she says. After about a year the passion starts to subside, sex will be less and worse. Co-existence goes into a routine. He (my husband) starts to get fat, lazy and good if mistress will not start. She (my wife) it will be increasingly annoying, and will remain, or trouble, or to suffer in silence, mourning the soul shattered hopes ... "
According to Lena lived for thirty years, she has never met a family where everything would be different. And live my life the same scenario Lena does not want. It is quite comfortable to live alone - without a showdown with the routine and endless pots and washing. The main disadvantage is that it is in close range of bewilderment and frustration. "Well, of course! - Ironically Lena. We have in fact if one means or abandoned, or are out of luck. The fact that this decision can be quite consciously and voluntarily - do not think. Or think just lying - just invent cause to justify their loneliness. As if it were something shameful or unworthy ... "
Single men among my friends and acquaintances were more - perhaps there is in this kind of pattern. To understand causes of loneliness "Masculine", I tell about Sergei, who explained why he lives alone.
Sergei soon be thirty-five. Its no exaggeration can be considered a successful person. Prestigious job, apartment, car ... Many wonder how such a successful and attractive man can remain celibate. But Sergei said that would gladly have done with his bachelor life, if met a girl who he wants.
"I do not want his wife emansipe aimed at a career that would disappear for days at work, and at home to produce a nervous couple - he explains. I do not want it fed me the junk food because of their work commitments. I want a relaxed, homely wife without great ambition, namely his wife, not the Lady business. What kind she declared she did not want children. Or come to work a month after giving birth, and will leave the child to strangers. I am opposed to the wife stayed at home and around my neck. Let it work, but without the energetic zeal. And it must be a stupid: a girl who can not support the intelligent conversation, I'm not interested ... "
In general, I very much hope that Sergey lucky.
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